Can't Have It Both Ways

I hear all the time about how there are no good men, well how many times do you have to say that before you finally convince yourself that it's true? Well i got news for you, you're WRONG! If you wonder why there aren't any good men around, why don't you look in the mirror? You see so many women are convinced that no good men exist because they allow what the last tool they chose to date and hurt them over and over and over warp their mind against the millions of other men in this world who are good men and only need the oppurtunity to prove it. Yes ladies when a good man keeps hearing from your mouth that there are no good men out there, they get annoyed and fed up and they no longer want to be around you. Yes you run them all off with your negativity and then out of desparation you settle for the only guys left, that are TOOLS. If you want to have that happiness that you see your friends have with their men and begin to wonder, "why can't I find that kind of man?" Ask them how did they meet, about 9 of 10 will tell you that they did not prejudge them. When and if you do that you will find that good man, but until you do, then the guy that hurt you will continue to hurt you and he will not have to say or do anything